And surprisingly my school friend yang aku budget diaorg mmg xtau pasal UMRA (sbb semuanya successful and they go to PCMC and hosp gah gah tu) tu pon cakap the same thing about UMRA
IMHO, czer or normal delivery tu semua adalah rezeki...and we have to accept it....provided you have tried your best.
Try your best meaning, before bersalin..read a lot and gain as much as possible info about pregnancy, solat, habluminallah wa habluminannas (jaga perhubungan dengan Allah dan manusia), berdoa byk2, baca al-quran, exercise, enroll pregnancy class, familiarize yourself with scientific terms regarding pregnancy, jaga makan etc etc
Two years back, I was one of the patient yang bersalin secara czer di UMRA
Why I was Caesar? Sebab my darling baby hampir lemas but the dilation was only 2 cm
And the doc made a decision to go for czer
Bila my makcik2, a few frens and cousin2 dpt tau I czer..
Dan disaat itu, bertubi2 lah soalan dari umat manusia sekeliling saya
Knp doc tak cuba induce dilation
Knp doc tak vacuum
Knp doc tak bg epi
Knp doc tak tunggu
Dah baby tu nak lemas, ko nak cakap ape kan...
Doc akan tunggu and cuba untuk normal delivery if the mother yang sakit or ade problem lain..
But when it comes to baby, doc akan buat apa saja untuk save the baby...
Sekarang, tengah pregnant second child and I still opt for UMRA to deliver my darling baby ni
And of course, at UMRA, the policy is, first child czer, second child definitely UMRA will go for czer..
Simply because UMRA do not want to take the risk of rupture on the scar of the uterus...
For those yang nak try normal for the 2nd child, you can go to other hospital bersalin...
Banyak je hosp yg offer VBAC a.k.a. bersalin secara normal after czer...
Apepun it is all up to your comfortability...
Yang nak keluarkan baby nye adalah kita...
Bukan husband, bukan mak, bukan MIL, bukan our aunties, or our cousin...
Think of your comfort when it comes to nak bersalin...
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ramai juga dengar macam tu... but my frens bersalin dekat umra normal jer... hehehe... rezeki masing2... for me tak kisahlah c-sec ke normal, yang penting baby sehat dan baby saya dapat melihat dunia... alhamdulillah...
ReplyDeleteKedua2 anak kak ayu dilahirkan secara czer (kat SALAM). Anak sulung sbb dah lemas (emergency czer). Yang kedua akak pilih utk czer (elective czer). Sebab pilih czer? Kerana trauma kene seluk hehehe. Penakut sangat!
ReplyDeleteAs for me... normal ke, czer ke... both SAKIT. Malah yg czer lebih sakit dan panjang tempoh sakitnya. In fact makan tahun utk hilangkan sengal dan ngilu.
Kenapa org suka perlekehkan org bersalin czer? Sedangkan "matlamat" kita nak selamat melahirkan baby. Samada normal/czer, itu rezeki masing2.
As a doctor pula, of course mereka nak berikan yang terbaik utk patient, kerana ia melibatkan nyawa.
Kwn2 akak ramai jer bersalin normal kat UMRA. So, jangan nak salahkan doktor/hosp seolah2 kita adalah pakar perubatan.
*panjang komen. Heheh
Sis,
DeleteThank you for the comment....ye betul...jgn salahkan doc or the hosp when we have to go for czer...